Lori Drew (MySpace Hoax Mom) Gets Served!
This is the HUGE news yesterday/today. The story is now world-famous: 13-year old Megan Meier committed suicide, allegedly over a MySpace relationship that went south. But it turns out that the whole relationship was a hoax, spearheaded by Megan’s former friend’s mother, Lori Drew!
Well, yesterday a tiny slice of justice prevailed, as a warning shot heard round the world was fired: Lori Drew was indicted by a federal grand jury on one count of conspiracy and three counts of accessing protected computers without authorization to get information used to inflict emotional distress on the girl. The indictment includes numerous counts of violating the MySpace user’s agreement.
Now, whether or not this will go through to the end, let alone end up in ‘justice served’ results (which to me would be having Drew forced to serve jail time and carry a picture of Megan with her everywhere she goes and explain to anyone she meets what she did), remains to be seen. But at the very least, this is a warning shot to social networking fans and users: it is not okay to terrorize someone through the Internet.
To parents, this should scream another message: be aware of what your kids are doing online AND how they are representing themselves and others. You have to monitor their computer and Internet activity.
Of course, this also puts the whole “Be a Parent” speech into a quagmire. How can we expect parents to be parents if they are going to act just as juvenile (and disgusting) as their teens? It’s very reminiscent of the stories where cops are busted for being Internet Predators – how are we supposed to trust the law when they break their own rules…?
Parents, it is up to you to keep your kids safe. If Drew walks, it will prove that there is no protection other than what you offer for you child. You have to monitor their online activity. Know what they are doing, who they are talking to. Don’t obsess with filtering and blocking, focus on KNOWING. Monitoring software like PC Pandora can help you do just that. There is no excuse for not being aware of what your child is doing online and what they are involved in. Knowledge is power. It can help you prevent tragic situations like this…
Below is the full AP article and TWO MSNBC videos: #1 is breaking news from yesterday (Thursday), #2 is the Today Show this morning (Friday). I urge going to the MSNBC website (linked below and the source for my post here), as their page on the story has a ton of information, including the info and video I put below, past related reports on the story and even answer a poll (which, at the time of me taking it, 85% of respondents felt the indictment was proper).
Mom indicted in MySpace suicide
Computer charges against woman whose daughter feuded with victim
The Associated Press
LOS ANGELES – A federal grand jury on Thursday indicted a Missouri woman for her alleged role in perpetrating a hoax on the online social network MySpace against a 13-year-old neighbor who committed suicide.
Lori Drew of suburban St. Louis allegedly helped create a false-identity MySpace account to contact Megan Meier, who thought she was chatting with a 16-year-old boy named Josh Evans. Josh didn’t exist.
Megan hanged herself at home in October 2006 after receiving cruel messages, including one stating the world would be better off without her.
Salvador Hernandez, assistant agent in charge of the Los Angeles FBI office, called the case heart-rending.
“The Internet is a world unto itself. People must know how far they can go before they must stop. They exploited a young girl’s weaknesses,” Hernandez said. “Whether the defendant could have foreseen the results, she’s responsible for her actions.”
She’s denied sending messages
Drew was charged with one count of conspiracy and three counts of accessing protected computers without authorization to get information used to inflict emotional distress on the girl.
Drew has denied creating the account or sending messages to Megan.
U.S. Attorney Thomas P. O’Brien said this was the first time the federal statute on accessing protected computers has been used in a social-networking case. It has been used in the past to address hacking.
“This was a tragedy that did not have to happen,” O’Brien said.
Both the girl and MySpace are named as victims in the case, he said.
MySpace is a subsidiary of Beverly Hills-based Fox Interactive Media Inc., which is owned by News Corp. The indictment noted that MySpace computer servers are located in Los Angeles County.
Due to juvenile privacy rules, the U.S. attorney’s office said, the indictment refers to the girl as M.T.M.
FBI agents in St. Louis and Los Angeles investigated the case, Hernandez said.
Each of the four counts carries a maximum possible penalty of five years in prison. Drew will be arraigned in St. Louis and then moved to Los Angeles for trial.
Citing terms of MySpace service
The indictment says MySpace members agree to abide by terms of service that include, among other things, not promoting information they know to be false or misleading; soliciting personal information from anyone under age 18 and not using information gathered from the Web site to “harass, abuse or harm other people.”
Drew and others who were not named conspired to violate the service terms from about September 2006 to mid-October that year, according to the indictment. It alleges they registered as a MySpace member under a phony name and used the account to obtain information on the girl.
Drew and her coconspirators “used the information obtained over the MySpace computer system to torment, harass, humiliate, and embarrass the juvenile MySpace member,” the indictment charged.
After the girl killed herself, Drew and the others deleted the information for the account, the indictment said.
Last month, an employee of Drew, 19-year-old Ashley Grills, told ABC’s “Good Morning America” she created the false MySpace profile but Drew wrote some of the messages to Megan.
A joke taken too far
Grills said Drew suggested talking to Megan via the Internet to find out what Megan was saying about Drew’s daughter, who was a former friend.
Grills also said she wrote the message to Megan about the world being a better place without her. The message was supposed to end the online relationship with “Josh” because Grills felt the joke had gone too far.
“I was trying to get her angry so she would leave him alone and I could get rid of the whole MySpace,” Grills told the morning show.
Megan’s death was investigated by Missouri authorities, but no state charges were filed because no laws appeared to apply to the case.
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May 20th, 2008 at 6:52 PM
Shocking Case indeed. !! Just goes to show that virtual friendships over the internet are no longer based on casual internet chats . I can only think of the emotional stress Megan might have gone through. Something must give here and I seriously believe more actions need to be taken to prevent this from happening again..!
May 20th, 2008 at 6:56 PM
Wow.! Just to think that someone could have gone all the way to do this makes me cringe. Proper monitoring software along with good parentage are indeed the need of the hour.