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A USA Today article – and its subject matter – is sparking a bit of heated debate. Basically, Congress is considering a bill that would bar children who use computers in public libraries from accessing Facebook and other social networking websites without parental permission.

Of course, all the nuts are coming out of the woodwork to cry about freedoms being squashed. They are somehow trying to link this to the destruction of the 1st amendment.

I am just as liberal as the next guy, and I am very modernistic and forward-thinking - I am not a conservative at all… but what the hell is wrong with you people?

The ONLY people this bill refers to is children under 18 who want to use a library computer to go on MySpace (or Facebook, etc.).

Does it interfere with privacy and free speech? Um, what type of privacy do you expect to have at a public terminal in a public place?

One genius says: “If people in a community do not feel confident that their privacy will be protected, they cannot use the library as it was intended, for intellectual pursuit, it will intimidate them.”

“Intellectual pursuit”? It’s a social networking site… there is absolutely ZERO intellectual anything happening over there.

Secondly, you are all missing the point. The bill is meant to prevent kids from disobeying their parents – or acting behind their parents back – accessing social network sites, and using the unsupervised access to potentially engage in risky behavior, i.e. meeting with strangers, waging a cyberbullying campaign, etc.

And, hey – uh… did any of you read this? It actually says “parents permission.” This law is telling kids that they have to obey their parents. Maybe that will make a few heads of this current self-absorbed young generation. And, if a parent is fine with their kid on MySpace, all they have to do is write a freaking note so that the little internet fiend can give it to the librarian and then he can plug the LAN line into his veins and glue his face to someone else’s Space.

There is nothing wrong with this bill you freaks. Pick your battles. You want to stop something? stop the federal aid going to private financial organizations that were ignorant and irresponsible and deliberately trying to screw people when it all blew up in their faces.

Geez freaking Louise.

Here’s the article… Read the comments. OH yeah, if parents used PC Pandora at home they could keep their kids and their social networking habits in check.

Bill would ban kids from Facebook, MySpace in libraries
By Ledyard King Gannett News Service

WASHINGTON — Congress is considering a bill that would bar children who use computers in public libraries from accessing Facebook and other social networking websites without parental permission.

Rep. Mark Steven Kirk, the Illinois Republican who sponsored the measure, says the proposal would keep sexual predators from contacting minors who are using a library computer.

But the American Library Association says Kirk’s bill is yet another attempt by the federal government to interfere with library users’ privacy and free speech.

“If people in a community do not feel confident that their privacy will be protected, they cannot use the library as it was intended, for intellectual pursuit,” said Emily Sheketoff, who heads the association’s Washington office. “It will intimidate them.”

It’s the latest in a series of battles the association has been fighting with Congress over the past decade. Some highlights:

• In 2000, lawmakers required libraries receiving federally discounted Internet service to install devices to filter out obscene material. Libraries sued, but the Supreme Court upheld the law.
• A year later, following the 2001 terrorist attacks, Congress passed the USA Patriot Act, giving federal authorities more power to track the books and videos library patrons borrow and the websites they visit.

Despite objections from the American Library Association, the act was renewed in 2006 without significant changes, other than a requirement that authorities take extra steps in justifying their need for the records.

Supporters of the law note that two of the 2001 hijackers bought their plane tickets using a public computer at a New Jersey college library and that other members of the plot surfed the Internet using a computer at a public library in Delray Beach, Fla.

Earlier this year, a federal magistrate judge in Atlanta ruled the FBI did not violate the privacy of a Pakistani national in 2006 by logging onto the same computer the Pakistani has used and looking up which websites he had visited. Agents said the man was part of a terrorism plot.

• In 2007, the American Library Association helped persuade Congress to reopen several Environmental Protection Agency libraries the Bush administration had closed. The closures “created a serious obstacle to the public’s ability to gather information about key environmental issues,” according to the association.
• Kirk’s bill, the Deleting Online Predators Act, died in 2006 but gained new life this year.

Kirk says that as more children flock to social networking sites like MySpace and Facebook, “we’ve seen a corresponding increase of online sexual predators” targeting those children.

But library officials say the legislation — while tackling a legitimate problem — takes the wrong approach in trying to keep kids safe from online predators.

Rather than outlawing certain sites, the American Library Association supports preparing kids and parents to deal with online threats at the library, home or anywhere else.

I skipped last week’s weekly round-up of Internet predators due to an abnormal/busy schedule. So this week, we make up for it with 13 new faces to welcome to the world of wacky Internet predators! Here’s a synopsis; full articles are below.

• 5 registered sex offenders are picked up in Texas for logging on to MySpace
• 2 western PA men turn the webcams on themselves and talk sex with someone who they think is a 13-yearl-old girl
• 19-year-old male in Arizona is stopped on routine traffic stop and has 15- and 16-year old girl in the car – both of whom he met on MySpace. Note: the girls were there on their own accord! Your little princesses are no angels. If they are on MySpace - be aware!!
• 48-year-old Tennessee man arrested for soliciting “12-year-old girl” online for sex
• 22-year-old man from Kentucky showed up at an area Wal-mart, expecting to meet a 15-year-old girl, instead, he was met by officers
• A 22-year-old trooper with the Colorado State Patrol tried to convince what he thought was a 14-year-old girl on the Internet to have a sexual relationship with him; a 52-year-old TSA official was arrested for the same thing
• A 22-year-old man from Nevada was jailed on charges of child sex abuse and child pornography - He met his alleged victims through MySpace.com

Obviously I don’t have to remind you, parents, that these guys are real and do exist. They are out there – but you have help. PC Pandora monitoring software can help you keep your kids safe online and away from pervos like these… (more…)

Gino Cosme’s blog called my attention to this (big ups my man!). The National Crime Prevention Council partnered with Sony Creative Software and the Ad Council to create “Delete Cyberbullying,” a public advertising campaign aimed at preventing cyberbullying. Part of this overall campaign was Cyberbullying PSA Development Contest.

Visit the NCPC’s Delete Cyberbullying page for more info on Cyberbullying and a few more videos, and visit Sony’s winners page for more info on the winners.

But , most uimportanlty, make sure you watch these two videos! Show them to your kids, start a discussion, and invest in PC Pandora monitorig software to make sure yoru kids don’t fall victim – or worse, become bullies – to this social malady.

“School” category
Winner: Lyndon B. Johnson Elementary
San Antonio, Texas
Instructor: Marvin Jimenez
Title: “Words Sometimes Really Do Hurt”

“Independent Producer” category
Winner: Josh Bourgeois
Thibodaux, Louisiana
Title: “Illuminate Cyberbullying”

The Herald reports on a survey that shows that 28% of 11-18 year olds have visited an adult site and 11% have had a sexually explicit chat online. Not that staggering when you consider the accessibility and the drive of your average teen.

But it’s still something to recognize. And it’s a reminder that parents need to monitor their child’s Internet activity. And guess what, the easiest best tool on the market is available for less than a tank of gas (less than HALF a tank for you SUV-driving suckers out there): PC Pandora monitoring and parental control software

One in 10 children has sexually explicit chats online, says survey
By Josie Clarke, The Herald, Scotland

More than one in 10 UK children has had sexually explicit conversations online, according to a report released today.

More than one-quarter of 11 to 18-year-olds (28%) have visited adult websites, while 11% of the same age group had been involved in explicit chats.

The Mobile Life survey for the Carphone Warehouse found 27% of young people had interacted with strangers online and 10% had met someone in person that they originally met on the web.

The poll of 6000 adults and children in the UK and the US found one in seven UK children (14%) admitted having felt uncomfortable in online situations.

It revealed half of UK children (49%) lied to their parents about what they were doing online, often pretending to do homework when they were surfing the net or on social networking sites.

One in three (33%) admitted they would be in trouble if their parents knew what they were looking at online. The study found a significant difference between what parents thought their children were doing online and the reality.

The majority of parents (87%) believed they were fully aware of the content their children accessed, while 86% were confident their children would not do anything they disapproved of.

Most had not checked their children’s online history, but 26% of those who had found something they were unhappy with. One-tenth of parents said their children had reported worrying online incidents.

Despite parents’ concerns about online safety, more than half (55%) said the Internet had vastly improved their life and access at home was as essential as a fridge or cooker.

TV psychologist Dr Tanya Byron, who contributed suggestions to the report to help parents discuss the Internet with children, said: “The key is for parents to treat online safety the same way they approach other danger areas.

“Would you let your children learn how to cross the road via trial and error? No, you teach them the Green Cross Code. Now, with the increasing importance of wireless technology, we must all learn and teach the Online Safety Code.”

Her suggestions include parents learning how to set privacy settings on home computers, telling children never to give details to strangers and to limit personal data on social networking sites and teaching children how to report abuse or offensive material.

Andrew Harrison, UK chief executive of the Carphone Warehouse, said: “We’re committed to researching the best ways to keep children safe online and hope our new findings will encourage parents to speak openly with their children about the internet.”

The long awaited Cox Communications National Summit on Internet Safety happened this week. There was lots of news about it. Cox Communications and the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC) held the third annual summit in Washington D.C. Children’s advocate John Walsh and Lauren Nelson, Miss America 2007 joined and presented findings.

The findings are interesting, but not shocking. Below I have pasted the official corporate press release. Also, this story – How Safe Are Your ‘Tweens’ Online? from pcmag.com – is the best one I found that covers the summit. Give it a read as well.

As you look at these statistics and wonder about your own child, don’t forget the monitoring software like our PC Pandora can help you keep YOUR kid safe online from both predators and cyberbullying… and even their own naiveté.

Happy Friday

Third Annual Cox Communications National Summit on Internet Safety Provides Key Information for Protecting Children Online; Children’s Advocate John Walsh and Lauren Nelson, Miss America 2007, Help Explore Tweens’ Online Behavior

WASHINGTON, July 22, 2008 /PRNewswire via COMTEX/ — Cox Communications and the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children(R) (NCMEC) held the third annual Cox Communications National Summit on Internet Safety today in Washington D.C. Sixteen students from Cox communities nationwide participated in discussions on Internet safety led by children’s advocate John Walsh and Lauren Nelson, Miss America 2007.

This year’s Summit focused on the online behaviors of tweens, children between the ages of 8 and 12, and was inspired by the results of the Cox Tween Internet Safety Survey. For access to the complete survey results, fast-facts culled from the findings, photos and b-roll from the Summit please visit www.safeteensonline.com .

“I have worked at the Boys & Girls Club in Orange County since I was sixteen, and I always work with the tweens,” said Navid Rastin, 18, one of the summit participants. “I can tell how hard it is for them to make friends. Social networks are a place where they look for friends, but they find a lot of peer pressure there, and they do a lot of crazy things, including posting inappropriate pictures. It’s all about self-esteem.”

Again this year, discussion at the Summit covered a mix of encouraging and troubling news revealed by the most recent survey on Internet safety. Key findings from the survey released today are:

• 90% of tweens report having used the Internet by 9 years old.
• Tweens online presence doubles or even triples between the ages of 8 to 10 and 11 to 12.
• 34% of 11 and 12-year-olds have a profile on a social networking site. Tweens with social networking profiles post more personal information online.
• More than 1 in 5 (20%+) tweens post information about themselves online, including pictures, the city they live in and how old they are. 27% of tweens ages 11 to 12 admit to posting a fake age online.
• 28% percent of tweens have been contacted over the Internet by someone they don’t know.
• The percentage of tweens that tell parents “a lot” or “everything” they do online drops rapidly with age. Only 69% of 11 to 12-year-olds tell Mom and Dad a lot/everything versus 86% of 8-year-olds to 10-year-olds.
• Of tweens who have been contacted online by someone they don’t know (28%), 18% keep the messages to themselves, and 11% percent have chatted with the unknown person.

“Our first line of defense in keeping kids safe is parents and guardians, and most parents seem to be taking this responsibility seriously,” said John Walsh, host of “America’s Most Wanted” (FOX). “73% of the tweens who participated in our survey indicated that Mom and Dad had talked to them ‘a lot’ about Internet safety. The remaining 27% represents too many kids to leave unprotected when there are people out there who have the compulsion to commit horrible acts. Each child with Internet access must learn as much about safety as possible. The stakes are just too high,” he said.

Lauren Nelson also shared her own personal experience in an effort to raise awareness about the dangers for children on the Internet. “When I was thirteen, my friends and I made the bad decision to share personal information on the Internet with someone we later learned meant to harm us,” said Nelson. “We told him our names, ages and where we lived. Thankfully, we told our parents about what we had done, and nothing bad happened to any of us, but not all kids are this lucky. Tweens share a lot with their parents, but start to keep things to themselves as they mature; parents need to understand this and do their best to keep the lines of communication open.”

Tomorrow, Walsh and Nelson will also discuss the survey and implications for families live in local broadcast television and radio interviews, and they will also be available via Web cast from 1:00 - 1:30 p.m. EDT to answer questions about Internet safety and discuss the teen survey in greater detail. To view the Web cast, go to http://www.visualwebcaster.com/event.asp?id=49596®d=n

Also tomorrow, the tweens are headed to Capitol Hill where they will meet with Senators and Representatives from their respective states in an effort to bring awareness to the issue of Internet safety. During more than twenty-five separate meetings, the tweens will speak one-on-one with Senators and Representatives including: Shelley Berkeley (D-NV), John Boozman (R-AR), Rick Boucher (D-VA), Sherrod Brown (D-OH), Ken Calvert (R-CA), Dianne Feinstein (D-CA), Bob Goodlatte (R-VA), Raul Grijalva (D-AZ), Chuck Hagel (R-NE), Patrick Kennedy (D-RI), John Kyl (R-AZ), Blanche Lincoln (D-AK), Charlie Melancon (D-LA), Jeff Miller (R-FL), Ben Nelson (D-NE), Bill Nelson (D-FL), Mike Ross (D-AR), Jon Porter (R-NV), Jack Reed (D-RI), Harry Reid (D-NV), Lee Terry (R-NE), David Vitter (R-LA), Stephanie Tubbs-Jones (D-OH), Jim Webb (D-VA) and Sheldon Whitehouse (D-RI).

The Tween Summit is an extension of Cox Communications’ ongoing Take Charge! initiative (www.cox.com/takecharge), which helps parents, guardians and kids make smarter media decisions. The Teen Summit will air on Cox’s local cable channels nationwide starting later this summer.

About Cox Communications: Cox Communications is a multi-service broadband communications and entertainment company with 6.2 million total residential and commercial customers. The third-largest cable television company in the United States, Cox offers an array of advanced digital video, high-speed Internet and telephony services over its own nationwide IP network. Cox Business is a full-service, facilities-based provider of communications solutions for commercial customers, providing high-speed Internet, voice and long distance services, as well as data and video transport services for small to large-sized businesses. Cox Media offers national and local cable advertising in traditional spot and new media formats, along with promotional opportunities and production services. Cox Communications wholly owns and operates the Travel Channel. More information about the services of Cox Communications, a wholly owned subsidiary of Cox Enterprises, is available at www.cox.com, www.coxbusiness.com, and www.coxmedia.com.

About Cox Communications’ Take Charge: Cox’s research on teen Internet safety from the last three years, online safety tools and tips, and links to NCMEC and other sources are available at www.cox.com/TakeCharge. Cox’s Take Charge program was launched in 2004 to educate parents and guardians about the importance of Internet safety and to help families get the most out of mass media in the home. It provides scores of resources to help parents and guardians manage what their children see, and don’t see, on TV and the Internet — from instructions on setting parental controls, to a guide to the lingo teens use online, to tips for more constructive conversations between parents and kids. Teaching young children and teens how to stay safer online is a major element of the Take Charge program, thanks in part to Cox’s partnership with NetSmartz.com, a collaboration between NCMEC and the Boys & Girls Clubs of America. Cox has donated more than $30 million worth of advertising time to NetSmartz and NCMEC to encourage safer online behavior among children. Cox’s Take Charge site will be updated with the complete 2008 tween research findings at the conclusion of the summit.

About the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC): The National Center for Missing & Exploited Children is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization. Since it was established by Congress in 1984, the organization has operated the toll-free 24-hour national missing children’s hotline, which has handled more than 2.2 million calls. It has assisted law enforcement in the recovery of more than 128,000 children. The organization’s CyberTipline has handled more than 600,000 reports of child sexual exploitation and its Child Victim Identification program has analyzed 15,000,000 child pornography images and videos. The organization works in cooperation with the U.S. Department of Justice’s Office of Juvenile Justice and Delinquency Prevention. To learn more about NCMEC, call its toll-free, 24-hour hotline at 1-800-THE-LOST or visit its web site at www.missingkids.com.

SOURCE Cox Communications; http://www.safeteensonline.com

FYI: This is our sister software, which can be used nicely in conjunction with PC Pandora…

Leading data recovery tool now recovers from both NTFS and FAT formatted drives and remains free to all…

New York, NY (PRWEB) July 23, 2008 — The Greek word “Pandora” comes from the words pan “all” + doran “gift.” Thus, “Pandora” literally translates to “all gifted,” or “all giving.” The new edition of Pandora Recovery couldn’t be closer to its Greek nomenclature roots, as it gives users the gift of all files lost or deleted. Pandora Recovery 2.0.1 is the much-anticipated upgrade to the popular free data recovery tool, and it includes the most-requested feature: FAT support.

“Both FAT16 and FAT32 formatted drives are now supported in searches for lost data,” states Pandora Corp. Chief Software Evangelist, Chris Graham. “This allows users to attempt recovery of files wiped out from digital camera cards, USB flash drives, Win98 and older WinXP hard drives.”

In addition to the FAT support, Pandora Recovery 2.0 has added several other features that make searching for and recovering lost or deleted data even easier. Upgrades include:

• Support for automatic device insertion and removal detection. “You can be running Recovery 2.0,” explains Graham, “connect in a new drive or device - such as a flash stick - to be searched, and it pops up right away. No need to close out of and restart the Recovery program, which you had to do in the past to recognize the newly inserted drive.”
• “Search statistics” available to the user and
• “% Overwritten” added to the list of sortable criteria. “These two features add to the list of useful ‘general information’ the user is given,” says Graham. “One is a breakdown of the types of files found, while the other lets you know the condition in which the files are found.”
• Default ‘deleted items only’ view. Only folders with deleted files or subfolders will be displayed in the browse tree, whereas pre-2.0 releases displayed all files found in a search to the user. The ‘all found’ display can still be activated.
• 1GB Flash Drive for Pandora Recovery Mobile purchasers.

A full list of Pandora Recovery 2.0.1 features can be found on PandoraRecovery.com.

Positive feedback and rave reviews pushed Graham and his team to make Pandora Recovery the strongest tool available to those in need of data recovery. And while Pandora Recovery 2.0 completes the program’s core functionality upgrades, it’s by no means the end of the line.

“We’re going to keep working on it and expanding the list of potentially recoverable files and data,” says James Leasure, co-founder of Pandora Corp. “Further updates to Pandora Recovery will focus on permanent data removal. We’d also like to help people recover deleted emails - that’s on the list for sure.”

Most likely, it will not be a program you use daily… but when you need it, you need it - and it can really save you a lot of stress and headaches in your PC usage. While the basic software is still FREE to everyone, for just a little more than the price of an empty USB flash drive, you can buy Pandora Recovery Mobile for instant recovery of lost data without requiring any physical installation of the program, which might compromise already-deleted files. Pandora Recovery Mobile includes Pandora Recovery 2.0, plus a demo version of the company’s signature monitoring software, PC Pandora Version 5 (with a $20 coupon to purchase), on a 1GB USB Jump Drive. Pandora Recovery Mobile is on sale for less than $20 during July. Further details on the program are available at http://www.pandorarecovery.com; Pandora products are also available on Amazon.com.

How Does It Disappear?
Statistics on data loss is sparse, as most research is conducted independently by companies who specialize in data recovery. Here are a few statistics that illustrate the spectrum of data loss from a few years ago…

Miscellaneous stats about computer data loss:

• A hard drive crashes every 15 seconds
• 32% of data loss is caused by human error
• 25% of lost data is due to the failure of a portable drive
• 44% of data loss caused by mechanical failures
• 1 in 5 computers suffer a fatal hard drive crash during their lifetime

A national Harris Interactive survey of 597 computer users revealed:

• Nearly 3 out of 5 personal computer users have lost an electronic file they thought they had sufficiently stored
• Only 1 in 4 users frequently back up digital files, even when 85% of computer users say they are very concerned about losing important digital data

System Requirements: Pandora Recovery requires Windows 2000, Windows XP, Windows 2003 Server or Windows Vista for installation. Pandora Recovery recovers deleted data from NTFS and FAT formatted drives. There are no plans at this time to create a version compatible with the Mac, Linux, or any other non-Microsoft Operating System.

About Pandora Corp.: Pandora Corporation was formed with one goal - to help our customers monitor, control and protect their families and themselves online. From keeping children safe from predators and shielding them from potentially harmful or mature content, to ensuring the integrity of your relationships, online records, accounts and personal information, Pandora Corporation’s flagship PC Pandora program is an essential tool in the fight against the potentially catastrophic consequences of having your privacy (or that of your family) breached. Pandora Corporation continues to innovate and integrate features our users want and request. Pandora Recovery’s upgrades come as a proof of our commitment.

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Last Thursday, Oprah repeated a story on Justin Berry. The original airdate was Feb 2006, but this rebroadcast was the first time I had seen or heard of this story. Thus, it’s worth discussing here…

Justin was an average 13-year-old honor student. One day, as the Internet was still blossoming, his friend brought over a webcam. Justin was impressed and got one for himself. The self-proclaimed “computer nerd” decided to join – as Oprah said – “an internet site where kids post profiles of themselves hoping to connect with each other” – aka social network site.

Almost instantly he got messages from other members. He had joined the site hoping to meet girls… instead, he unknowingly met a world of manipulative sexual predators and pedophiles.

What started out as friendly conversations with his webcam, turned into odd requests from his online friends. It started with ‘take your shirt off for $50’. The pedophiles helped him set up a paypal account and even an Amazon.com wishlist and would pay him and send him gifts as he continued to fulfill requests. Each request was another step forward… leading to full nudity and explicit sexual acts – alone and with others – on camera.

His mom had no clue. Ironically, she worked with kids who were sexually abused as her profession. She had installed software, but he circumvented it. [NOTE: this was old school filtering. Not any monitoring software. We pride ourselves in making PC Pandora so stealthy that no kids will ever know its running on the machine unless you mess up and let them know.]

When Justin was 16, pictures of him leaked out into his high school. He decided to move to Mexico with his father. This wonderful father of Justin’s only offered to help further his online child porn business and maximize the income when he learned of his son’s activity.

From about age 14 to 18, Justin owned and operated several different subscription-based professionally designed (with the help of his online friends) pornographic sites, where he was the star. He competed with other kids in the business, became addicted to cocaine and marijuana, and made lots of money while losing his childhood and teenage innocence.

When Justin turned 18, he continued to run his site and effectively went from victim to perpetrator. Not only that, but he basically hired other kids and got them into the business. He was a bonafide child porn king.

Then he met Kurt Eichenwald, a New York Times reporter who came across Justin’s pictures while working abroad on an entirely different story. He asked to meet Justin and slowly but surely convinced him to shut down the site, stop doing drugs (he was a full blown addict) and go to the authorities… he did. And the rest is now an FBI case and investigation.

You can read the full New York Times article written by Eichenwald that exposed this terrible side of the Internet in December 2005: Through His Webcam, a Boy Joins a Sordid Online World. It’s long and a bit older, but PLEASE READ IT.

What parents need to take away and understand here is that as much as he is a victim, he also consented to everything… On several occasions, he actually took plane trips to visit his “online friends” in various states and locations. Each time, he was repeatedly molested, then went home and carried on. He didn’t stop.

The argument here is that he is a victim because adults manipulated him. That may be the case and that is certainly a part of it… but another part is the inability of this common current-generation teen to distinguish between what is and what is not appropriate on the Internet - not knowing or conceiving of a world without it where not everyone is nice and anonymity doesn’t transpire. Remember, he turned on the PC each time. He gladly accepted money and gifts. [It's also worth noting he even tried several times himself to stop, but he couldn’t.]

What parents need to understand is that all kids are like this. It’s not the parents’ fault; it’s not he kids’ fault. It’s nature. It’s the reason our children need our protection form the dangers in the world that they will not recognize themselves. It’s a reason why parents need to be there and be active in their child’s life - to teach them and show them what is appropriate and what is not, so that in the event they are given this path – they will be able to say no on their own. Justin was young. The predators got to him and were successful. But parents everywhere can stop this from happening to their kids. They just need to be active. Justin’s mom openly said her son was being secretive in his room and would ‘x’ out of Internet sites when she walked in. If just ONCE she had been forceful and demanded to see what he was doing she would have discovered the truth.

Though this story is old and, yes, I will freely admit it is an EXTREME SCENARIO case – it is nonetheless a reminder that kids are kids. They can be manipulated by sickos online and without realizing what they are doing they will consent. (FYI: I do argue that there is a huge difference between a 13-year-old who is methodically groomed and 16-year-old who wants to live a promiscuous lifestyle.)

Parents need to be there to protect kids from both Internet predators – and their own innocence, which can turn to teenage stupidly in the blink of an eye. Parents need to monitor computer activity of their kids. Period. This is a whole new ballgame and it’s a whole new mentality of youth.

Use PC Pandora in your home to know exactly what your kids are doing online. Know whom they are talking to and where they are going. The virtual world is quickly melding with the real one, and consequences and ripples from each carry over into one another. You cannot afford to just let your kids roam the Internet without knowing what they do. PC Pandora monitoring software can be your eyes and ears. It’s a matter of personal safety… not spying or snooping. It’s called being a parent and letting your child know that you are the boss and you are going to protect them by any and all means necessary, which includes not letting them do stupid things that can haunt them later in life… or worse, end it prematurely.

I guess that’s enough of a rant. Again, the article is long and older, but please read it. We can always use a reminder… Oh yeah, and one last thing… for Pete’s sake people: DO NOT LET YOUR KIDS HAVE WEBCAMES INTHEIR BEDROOMS!!!!

Through His Webcam, a Boy Joins a Sordid Online World

Last year, the University of Michigan C.S. Mott Children’s Hospital National Poll on Children’s Health ranked Internet Safety as the 7th most important thing to parents. I did a blog post here; and here is a quick recap of the Top 10:

1. Smoking
2. Drug abuse
3. Childhood obesity
4. Alcohol abuse
5. Motor vehicle accidents
6. Teen pregnancy
7. Internet safety
8. School violence
9. Sexually transmitted infections
10. Abuse and neglect

This year’s poll findings show that Internet safety has moved up to #5. And while school violence was last year’s #8, we see actual “Bullying” on the list for the first time this year as #4! This is HUGE. Rightly so, bullying is placed above ‘Internet predators’. But it speaks volumes to the fact that the dangers on the Internet are playing a bigger role in teenage lives and in parental woes.

And, hey, it’s yet more proof that parents need to be monitoring computer and internet activity of their kids. That’s why we make PC Pandora monitoring software. Every parent should be able to know what their child is doing so they can protect them from dangers and threats online.

Anyway, Here’s the full article. It’s a great Friday read!

Obesity ranks as top health concern for kids, poll finds
Published: Monday, 14-Jul-2008 in Child Health News

As children’s waistlines continue to grow, so have concerns about childhood obesity. According to a report released today by the University of Michigan C.S. Mott Children’s Hospital National Poll on Children’s Health, childhood obesity is now the No. 1 health concern for kids in 2008, topping smoking and drug abuse. In 2007, childhood obesity ranked third among parents’ top 10 overall health concerns for kids.

“The National Poll on Children’s Health report clearly shows that adults in America are very concerned about the problem of childhood obesity and its causes,” says Matthew M. Davis, M.D., M.A.P.P., director of the National Poll on Children’s Health. “While recent studies have suggested that the childhood obesity epidemic may be leveling off, the results of this poll reveal that adults in the U.S. are still very much concerned about this issue.”

The National Poll on Children’s Health, which asked adults to rate 20 different health problems for children living in their communities, reveals that bullying also now ranks among the public’s top concerns for children’s health, ahead of teen pregnancy and alcohol abuse. Other new topics added to this year’s list are Attention Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder and environmental toxins. Also making the public’s overall list of top 10 health concerns for kids in 2008: Internet safety, abuse and neglect, sexually transmitted infections, and lack of opportunities for physical activity for kids. The top 10 health concerns for 2007 that did not make this year’s list: Motor vehicle accidents and school violence.

Top 10 overall health concerns for U.S. children in 2008

1. Childhood obesity. Thirty-five percent of adults ranked childhood obesity as their top overall health concern for children. In 2007, it was ranked No. 3. Although other research has shown that Hispanic youth are at greater risk for obesity, this problem was rated lower by Hispanic adults than white adults and black adults.
2. Drug abuse. Drug abuse is viewed as a bigger health concern among Hispanic adults (50 percent) than white adults (29 percent) and black (35 percent) adults. It also was more likely to be listed as a top health concern among adults with lower incomes.
3. Smoking. Ranked No. 1 in 2007, smoking now holds the No. 3 position in 2008, with 32 percent of U.S. adults rating it as a major overall health concern. Among Hispanic adults, however, smoking is still rated as the No. 1 health concern for kids (52 percent).
4. Bullying. New to this year’s list, bullying was rated highly by both adults with and without children in their homes. Adults from middle-income households were more likely than adults with lower-income or higher-income households to rate bullying as big problem.
5. Internet safety. Adults with household incomes of $100,000 or more per year were more likely to view Internet safety as a big problem for children in their community. Overall, 27 percent of adults polled rated Internet safety as big health concern for kids.
6. Child abuse and neglect. This issue, which was ranked No. 10 in 2007, was rated as a top health concern for kids among 25 percent of adults polled.
7. Teen pregnancy. Black adults continue to rate teen pregnancy as the top health concern for youth in their community, with 35 percent reporting it’s a major health concern compared with only 21 percent of white adults and 33 percent of Hispanic adults.
8. Alcohol abuse. For the 2008 poll, 23 percent of adults listed alcohol abuse as a health concern for kids. In 2007, alcohol abuse was ranked fourth overall.
9. (tie). Attention Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder. AD/HD, also new to this year’s list, was a much greater concern among adults with low-income households than adults with middle-income and high-income households. Overall, 21 percent of adults polled rated it as a health concern for kids. Sexually transmitted infection. Sexually transmitted infections among youths continue to be considered a big problem affecting children’s health, with 21 percent of adults rating it as a top health concern. This issue also was ranked ninth in 2007.
10. (tie). Chemicals in the environment. The issue of environmental toxins was added to this year’s list, largely due to concerns among Hispanic adults and adults with low-income households. More than 30 percent of Hispanic adults and 25 percent of adults in the lowest income group felt environmental toxins in their communities pose a threat to children’s health. Not enough opportunities for physical activity. “Having this issue among the 2008 top 10 health concerns underscores the importance placed on childhood obesity as a major problem in adults’ minds,” notes Davis. Nineteen percent of adults rated this issue as a top health concern.

Issues that did not rank among the top 10 overall health concerns, but were included in the National Poll on Children’s Health include: driving accidents, depression, asthma, eating disorders, neighborhood safety, school violence, autism and suicide.

The National Poll on Children’s Health also found that adults who did not have children in their households were more likely than parents to list drug abuse, smoking and tobacco use, Internet safety, and sexually transmitted infections as top health concerns. Additionally, adults from low-income households (less than $30,000 per year) viewed drug abuse, smoking and tobacco use, and teen pregnancy as the biggest health concerns for kids. Adults, however, with higher household incomes (more than $100,000 per year) were more likely to rate obesity, Internet safety and drug abuse as major issues.

“We found multiple difference in the priority of health problems for kids in the minds of adults by race, ethnicity, income or some other characteristic. What this tells us is that there is no ‘one-size-fits-all’ public health approach to these issues,” says Davis, associate professor of general pediatrics and internal medicine at the U-M Medical School, and associate professor of public policy at the U-M Gerald R. Ford School of Public Health. “So as doctors, nurses and public health officials work to find ways to help their community deal with health issues, it’s important that they remember to tailor their approach to the priorities of the community.”

For its report, the National Poll on Children’s Health used data from a national online survey conducted in April 2008 in collaboration with Knowledge Networks Inc. The survey was administered to a random sample of 2,064 adults, ages 18 and older, who are a part of Knowledge Network’s online KnowledgePanelSM. The sample was subsequently weighted to reflect U.S. population figures from the U.S. Census Bureau. About three-fourths of the sample were households with children.

For the complete report and podcast about poll results, visit the C.S. Mott Children’s Hospital National Poll on Children’s Health online at www.med.umich.edu/mott/npch.

The C.S. Mott Children’s Hospital National Poll on Children’s Health - funded by the Department of Pediatrics and Communicable Diseases and part of the CHEAR Unit at the U-M Health System - is designed to measure major health care issues and trends for U.S. children.

To learn more about Knowledge Networks, visit www.knowledgenetworks.com.

http://www.umich.edu

So, after I posted yesterday, I got headlines of FIVE more predator stories. Usually, if stuff comes in after I post, I hold it until the following week. But this was just too many to hold on to… AND, the last one is probably my all time favorite; file it under the “I couldn’t make this up if I tried” category.

• A 28-year old New Jersey man was arrested for luring a 13-year-old girl he met on MySpace. The girl’s parents found out about the relationship and called police. Oh yeah, before he was arrested, the girl had met him several times for consensual sex.
• A 15-year-old girl met a 34-year-old man on MySpace in Indiana. Girl lied and said she was 20 in her profile, and then said she was 15 later. Turns out the guy served 11 years for attempted rape of 2 little girls. Now, 15-year-old is crying “victim”, even though she knowingly went to a church to meet him, got in his van, and drove to a different location to have sex. She is not claiming rape… she consented.
• In Pennsylvania, a 49-year-old man was busted in an Internet sting for soliciting what he though were 13 and 14-year-old girls for sex. Oops! It was the cops instead!
• A 52-year-old former federal officer in Louisiana was sentenced this week for enticing, who he thought was a young girl online, to perform sexual acts over the computer.

And finally, I couldn’t make this one up… it’s been getting a lot of press lately in the “ironic” news section…

•  33-yearld-old Michigan man was arrested in an Internet predator sting after trying to solicit, what he thought was a 14-year-old girl, for sex. He showed up to meet the “girl” and was wearing – are you ready- a t-shirt that read “World’s Greatest Dad.” Ridiculous.

Just more reasons to use PC Pandora monitoring software to keep your kids safe from sickos like these… and in the consensual cases, keep them safe from themselves! Notice the top two stories involve old man, young girl, MySpace and consensual sex. Still think teens are innocent and shouldn’t be monitored?

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THREE POSTS IN ONE DAY! Wow… breaking records here at the PC Pandora blog.

OK, so here is the weekly round-up. While these are all somewhat different cases of “Internet predators” they remain clear cut examples of the ridiculous filth that use the internet for sick intent… and the teens who consent.

• In Iowa a 26-year-old meets a 16-year-old on MySpace. Girl runs away with man. Consent.
• In Phoenix AZ a 23-year-old meets a 15-year-old girl on MySpace. Man travels to girls house and has sex with her while her parents are home! Parents say their daughter was “victimize”… yet apparently she wasn’t screaming, “Get off me,” if you know what I mean… Consent.
• In Portland Oregon, a 28-year-old Portland man who crossed state lines in an attempt to have sex with a 5-year-old girl has been sentenced to 25 years in prison.
• In Connecticut a registered sex offender is facing criminal charges after he allegedly used a MySpace.com account to meet young men.

More reasons to use PC Pandora monitoring software to keep your kids safe from sickos like these… and in the consensual cases, keep them safe from themselves!

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