What is Your Kid Searching for?
A new report this week made a lot of headlines, because it shed a little light on what our young internet users are searching for online. I pasted the cNet.com article below (it’s my favorite go-to source for tech-related stories – they are excellent), but here is the Top 10:
1. YouTube
2. Google
3. Facebook
4. Sex
5. MySpace
6. Porn
7. Yahoo
8. Michael Jackson
9. Fred
10. eBay
Before you read, there are two things I want to point out here.
The first issue is something you may also notice. SIX of the top 10 are actual websites!!! This begs a couple of questions: isn’t one of the first things a parent teaches their child about using the Internet entering a URL into the address bar? Do these kids know how to do that? DO they know these are the names of actual websites? DO they realize how redundant it is to search for a search engine? (e.g. Google, Yahoo) Are we getting so lazy that we can’t be bothered to just type in the address we have to search for it? SO instead of typing eBay.com, we only have enough energy to type eBay in a search engine and click. I am pretty sure that even if you don’t have the energy for the .com that is you just type MySpace in the address bar the site comes up… sheesh! Let’s read between the lines here!
Okay, but seriously, the bigger issue is the obvious pair of elephants on that list: “Sex” and “Porn.” This is proof that your kids are using the internet for reason you most likely don’t approve of – or that at the very least should make your think about the freedom you are giving them online. If they are curious, that is one thing; but if they are addicted or getting obsessed, that is another. As a parent, you need to decide what you’re going to allow coming through that internet connection in your house and then you need to enforce it.
While blocks and filters are the go-to solution, they aren’t enough. But programs like our PC Pandora monitoring software have built-in features that actually log the search queries (i.e. keeps a list of all the stuff your kids are looking for). So in addition to being able to see everything your kids do, you’ll see what they are interested in and constantly looking for. I hate to bring it up, but this is a good way to find out if your child is addicted to anything (drugs, gabling) or looking for eating disorder or pro-suicide or cutting sites as well…
Anyway, read the blurb on the report. Good stuff… Have a great weekend!!
August 11, 2009
Kids’ search terms: Sex, games, rock ‘n’ roll
by Lance WhitneyKids search for the darndest things online.
In recent months, they’ve been looking for everything from Facebook and YouTube to Michael Jackson, Miley Cyrus, and someone named Fred. Oh, yes, they’re also looking for pictures their parents probably don’t want them to see.
That’s the upshot of a new report from Symantec. The service can track and report on a child’s Internet whereabouts in real time, allowing parents to quickly learn of any content they feel their kids should not be accessing.
Here are the top 10 search terms among kids for the period from February through July:
1. YouTube
2. Google
3. Facebook
4. Sex
5. MySpace
6. Porn
7. Yahoo
8. Michael Jackson
9. Fred
10. eBayOther terms that made the top 100 included Eminem (49), the Jonas Brothers (47), iTunes (89), Playboy (also at 89), boobs (28), Wikipedia (14), Webkinz (16), games (17), and swine flu (93). Fred? He’s a fictional character whose YouTube channel has become a hit among kids, Symantec says.
In an interview with CNET News, Symantec Internet safety advocate Marian Merritt discussed the latest search results and how parents can help their kids surf more safely.
In her role, Merritt spends a lot of time talking to kids and parents. She said she was less surprised by the results than some of her co-workers.
“I think seeing how dominant the terms ‘sex’ and ‘porn’ are, that they come up well within the top 10, doesn’t surprise us,” said Merritt. “You go down farther in the list, you see words of anatomy like ‘boobs,’ it almost makes you laugh because we remember what it was like to be a preteen or teen. Parents don’t often have context around this sort of thing.”
In search of YouTube
By speaking with children as part of her job, Merritt says she understands why kids are searching for the terms found in the list.“Whenever I talk to children, all the way down to the kindergarten level, YouTube is one of the top three or four sites they go to,” she explained. “And children even report they use YouTube as a research starting point. There’s a topic they’re interested in. They go to YouTube because they want to visually learn about something. The reason that’s important for parents to understand is that there are challenges around making YouTube a safe environment for your children. It’s not really designed for that.”
Merritt feels this type of study can help parents to better grasp their own kids’ Internet activity, “to understand what’s normal, what’s not normal, what’s typical.”
“If your children were searching for something like this Fred character (from YouTube), and you didn’t know what it was, it might confuse you,” she said. “But I think the study sets some expectations from parents that ‘my child is looking to be entertained.’ On the other hand, if you saw that your child is looking up porn, and you became very upset, this might show you that actually it’s a very common thing for kids to be doing. And you should be reassured that there’s nothing really wrong with your child. Rather, this should be an opportunity for a teachable moment.”
Merritt believes ages 8 to 13 are a critical age range for children on the Internet. “A lot of parents think the most dangerous things their kids are going to encounter are when they’re in high school, which is dead wrong,” she noted. “If you can get your kids on a path of good Internet behavior when they’re in elementary school before the critical middle school time, you’ll have much greater success with your children and their expectations around their Internet lives.”
A partnership
Merritt also sees the service as triggering more of a partnership between kids and parents. She says that parents can establish house rules over what sites their kids can or cannot access. “It’s very open. Kids always know that the product is monitoring them. A little icon will pop up that says this breaks the house rules, identifies which rule, and it allows the child to send a message to the parent to explain, or the kid can back out of it, not realizing that this was a bad Web site.”To compile the list, Symantec tracked 3.5 million searches run by registered users of their service from February 2009 (when the service was first released as a beta) through July 2009. Each term had to be submitted at least 50 times to make the list.
